Male Chauvanistic Pigs

An entry for both my private & main blog.

You don’t have to read it, really.

There are boys, guys, men thinking that they are more superior to women. From being the breadwinner of the family, to just a normal boyfriend, they always have opinions and thoughts that women, to them, can’t comprehend. Whatever a guy does, he’ll detest being told what to do. Opinions coming from a female are of no value.

For a family with no maid, the wife and her children are expected to do all of the housework – most of the time. Do a good job in it, and do not expect the Man to even lift a finger. Because, he’s really tired after a day’s work. No no, do not even expect any chores from him even during the weekends. Because the Man needs rest after 5 days of slogging in the office. And you don’t.

And for families where husband and wife both bring home the bread, the wife is still supposed to do the household chores. Because she’s female. Because you're the one with the muscles, because you're the stronger one (ironic huh), because you're the Man. No problem with that right? After all, God created Eve because Adam was lonely.

Women, supposedly considered as the weaker sex, are often belittled and taken advantage of by men in many ways. And I cannot tolerate that. Being physically stronger and thinking with your left brain doesn’t make you the stronger sex. Those are just differences.

I'm not even asking you to do all the work. The least you can do is to help out.

Because of this chauvinistic mentality passed down right from the beginning of time, it only makes things look like its right. When in actual fact, it doesn’t.

To make use of her love to feed your ego, it only makes you the leech.

You benefit from her, and what does she get?

Mother was sniffing as she came to me, while I was doing the laundry. Apparently, it was my dad again. As Monday is working day, he needed office clothes. She had ironed a whole lot of shirts for him, and she forgot to iron his trousers. As she was coming out of the toilet in the master bedroom, my dad snapped at her about having no trousers for tomorrow, even though he was lying on the bed reading his book. You can’t even ask nicely or add a please? Look how hurt she got.

Mother and I busied ourselves in the kitchen (and around the house for me) for the entire day as relatives were coming over at night for dinner. He just sat there playing card games on the computer. And she has work early in the morning later. Earlier than him.

If you’ve got so much fucking time to play those fucking card games on the fucking computer, why can’t you take that fucking precious time off to iron your fucking trousers?

I don’t fucking understand.

All you know how to do is to shout, order and demand.

Fuck you, father. Don’t treat your wife and children as your maids. You don’t even pay us as much.

And for a few occasions, I was told off for telling my boyfriend ‘what to do’. It was just opinions, if you would learn to get it right – not telling off. For a mature age like, coming 20, you are a boy no more baby. Accept opinions graciously, and I’m not even talking about criticism. If you have learnt to value a person, learn to value his or her opinions as well. It stings your ego, but it’s all for the better you. I would not want to harm you. Likewise, I may not think that some stuff that you say is right. But I just listen. Maybe someday, I’ll think back and realize that you’re actually right and I could have listened to you. Give and take – one gives opinions, the other takes it in.

But baby and I have it worked out already, I’m sure it won’t happen again. We all learn from experiences and mistakes. It was just a bad one.

I’m done with this entry, and I feel so much better now. Seriously. I’ve said what I want to say, and I’m not going to take it back.

Oh yes.

Fuck you all, male chauvinistic pigs. Start thinking with your right brain for a better world.